"It's nice," Kathy admitted. "He's not what I would expect, really. There's no...expectation in it. He's happy to do whatever I want to do and not a thing more. And it's casual, so I don't have to worry about, well, anything I guess. He's doesn't want to be my boyfriend and I don't think I'd want him to be, even if he were interested."

She shook her head. "This isn't exactly how I expected anything like this to go," she admitted. "I never really saw myself as a friends with benefits type. But it's comfortable, except for when I get all uptight and freak myself out."